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Today I had the pleasure of joining Stacey Julian and Noell Hymen to talk about Nostalgia on the Paperclipping Round Table

In preparing for the episode I was thinking about the role of nostaglia in scrapbooking through a loss.  Since I do sometimes use scrapbooking as an adjunct to therapy with my own clients, I had lots of ideas about this topic (tune in to hear some of them!).  But I also got to thinking about some of the tribute/nostalgia pages I’ve made over the years, and how scrapbooking an event or a person can help you look back with fond memories and help heal the pain of loss, whether it be loss of a person, a pet, or even a phase of life.  Here is a sampling of some of my own personal pages that either trigger nostalgia, or that were created as part of the grieving process for me:

Here is a 2012 Project Life share video about an insert I created for the anniversary of my Dad’s death:

A few years ago our province was campaigning to win a national shipbuilding deal, and we ended up winning it, meaning $25 billion worth of development would be invested into our shipbuilding industry.  Since my Dad was a shipwright, the whole campaign got me thinking about him, and wondering what he would think of it all… Shipsstarthere

This page has a lot of my Dad’s favourite things- Tim Hortons, Vitamix, Lee Valley, wood, gears, book paper, a carpenter’s union sticker, nuts, a BC comic, filmstrip.

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I created the background paper by using matte medium to collage a bunch of pieces of book paper (he loved books) to a piece of plain card stock.

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Here is the process vid (from 2011):

Here’s the first layout I did about my dad, from back when I first started scrapbooking in 2009:
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I put a lot of thought and energy into collecting things that represented him: Duct tape, tiny tools, dictionary paper (he was a Wordsworth), leather-looking tag, scrabble tiles.

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And everything is distressed because it was 2009 and Tim Holtz distress inks were everywhere, and I had so much fun playing with them.  Plus it reminded me of how dirty he used to be after work, or after working on the car.

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My Dad was a cat-lover and used to help care for feral kittens who lived around the dockyards.

And here are a few nostaglia type layouts I created not related to grieving.  These are layouts I created some time after the photos were taken, and although for me, all older pics have a tendency to induce nostalgia, these layouts were created pretty much to induce nostalgia (listen to the show for more about that!).

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Look at us: we were young, and crazy, and having a Disney Honeymoon!

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I don’t have many pictures of us before we had kids (for some reason those cute kids make all us parents photo-happy), so I love looking at my old honeymoon pictures!  Feel the Nostalgia!  I feel warmer already!

This next one proclaims that I’m not nostalgic about baby gear, but boy, did I love that stroller.  I’m actually not the kind of person who gets all sad when my kids grow from phase to phase.  I didn’t miss the tiny sleepers, the smell of baby powder, or the cute baby toys, nor did I wish my baby would never grow up and go to big school.  But when I see this pic of them- BOTH young enough to be in a stroller… that phase didn’t last long, and yeah, now I have to admit, I am more nostalgic about the beings IN the stroller than I am about the stroller itself.  Funny how time changes things.

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Mercy Tiara

Mercy Tiara

You may be wondering who is Mercy Tiara, and why the name? MercyTiara is an anagram of my first and middle names, Tracy Marie. I discovered this name in the 90's in grad school when we were all coming up with alter egos for one another in a lab one day. I've used it ever since, but you can call me Tracy or MercyTiara, or anything you want... just don't call me late for supper!